Thailand is enjoying some major buzz this year, and for good reason. Not only is this southeast Asian nation the setting for the third season of HBO’s White Lotus, but more importantly it celebrated a historic milestone in January 2025 by becoming the first nation in Southeast Asia to legalize same-sex marriage.
As the nation’s capital and largest city, Bangkok naturally benefits from the positive vibes of this significant moment in history. Locals and visitors alike are reveling in this latest proof of Thailand’s queer friendliness, as well as annual LGBTQ+ celebrations, including Bangkok Pride. Bangkok is indeed more appealing than ever for queer travelers from around the globe.
The recent path to marriage equality, meanwhile, reflects Thailand’s complex relationship with LGBTQ+ rights, according to Bangkok based Mook Phanpinit, who serves as user acquisition and lifecycle marketing associate at the queer dating app HER. “Looking back, LGBTQ+ history in Thailand is way more complex than people realize,” she said. “We’ve actually had records of non-heterosexual behavior dating back centuries, but it was often just seen as a matter of dress or hairstyle.”
In addition to impressive strides that improve quality of life for LGBTQ+ people, Thailand is also experiencing a boom in the hospitality sector, especially when it comes to luxury hotels. Leading Bangkok’s hospitality renaissance is the rebirth of the legendary Dusit Thani Bangkok. The original property, which closed in 2019, was Thailand’s tallest building when it opened in 1970. In September 2024, its reincarnation on the edge of Lumphini Park masterfully blends modern luxury with Thai heritage.
Other notable hotel openings include The Ritz-Carlton Bangkok and StandardX Hotel , both of which debuted in late 2024. About to open at press time were the Aman Nai Lert Bangkok and KROMO Bangkok, Curio Collection by Hilton, which marks the lifestyle brand’s debut in Thailand.
While Bangkok has long been known for its nightlife focused primarily on gay men, especially in the legendary Silom Road area, the scene has evolved to embrace the full spectrum of the LGBTQ+ community. The city’s lesbian scene is wonderfully vibrant. At GO GRRRLS— the party vibes are unmatched. Meet people from all over the world, Thai and international. Or head to lower key Les Hi Bar a “secret,” lesbian-only bar that provides a safe space for women.
Long-standing favorites on the LGBTQ+ nightlife scene include DJ Station, a popular place for dancing, and Circus Soi 4, a lively little place that stages performances by drag queens and go-go boys. Another pleasant pub is Dragon and Koi which we found to be a more relaxing alternative to the often-packed venues on the main strip. It has a nice bar, pleasant staff, and a rather informal go-go boy show.
The latest developments in this fascinating city only add to its legendary appeal. Beyond its vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, Bangkok captivates visitors with an irresistible blend of centuries-old traditions and modern energy. The city’s most iconic landmarks include the sprawling Grand Palace complex, home to the much-visited Emerald Buddha, and Wat Phra Chetuphon (commonly known as Wat Pho), where we admired the massive Reclining Buddha and treated ourselves to traditional Thai massages at the temple’s renowned massage school. Another must-see is Wat Arun, the Temple of Dawn, which rises majestically from the western bank of the Chao Phraya River, its spires gleaming at sunrise and sunset and beautifully illuminated at night.
